Liar Liar: The Truth behind the GF/BF relationship

We live in a global world today and it has really changed our lives now a days. Globalisation has truly created a confusing situation in some cases.

One thing that has been adopted by our culture from west is the premarital relationships. Western media, movies and especially internet has done wonders to promote that evil.

What is disappointing is that not only the Hollywood movies but also our local industry is fond of such relations. Not to mention our neighbours who does not have any culture of their own and follow every one blindly.

What are the stats of such relation in west does not really make much of a difference to us here. What we should be worried about is that the growing trend of having such affairs can really ruin the remains of our civilization.

The main reason why boys want to have such relation is obvious and there are not a lot of goals in a girl’s mind neither. Majority of Pakistani girls step in to such tie ups with the intentions of getting married and there is nothing wrong with it, boys
however think differently.

The success percentage of such relations is pretty low in our society. Even if a couple is in a serious relation there can be a number of hurdles in their way. Taking parent’s consent before getting married is still important in our community. Race, faith
and family background of your partner must be approved by your elders to proceed.

It is however pretty rare that both the partners in such relations are being honest.  The best way to be around a girl though, is to get married. There is no harm in knowing your partner before you decide to take on the big decision but knowing your limits
is beneficial for the both.

Boys can still afford to have such relations as our society is male oriented and also it has a lot to do with fragile female gender. Any boy who has a little experience in such relations can easily reveal the mystery behind the success in such relations.

If you are a boy all you have to do is to convince your partner that you will marry her and you are most likely to get your way through. It is however, not easy to hit that spot, but as soon as you manage to win her trust, you are in the perfect position
to do the biggest mistake of your life.

Once the barrier that was attracting the two is broken, the relation proceeds to the next level.  Being close to a girl after marriage is different but it is hard to maintain the balance if you are not.

The only thing that a gf/bf relationship lacks is the bonding that only marriage can provide.  Breakups are high in such attachments and it hurts both the partners equally, the impression of boys being unhurt-able is pretty much wrong, to be honest!

The fast trend of having such relations is high especially in our educational institutes. Internet has brought the whole world on your desk and the possibilities are unlimited, cyber friendship being one of them.

One question that most of us ask after a bad relation is, ‘Why is my relation not same as they show in movies?’ The answer is, ‘because it’s the reality’.

The gf/bf relation is hence a growing evil in our society and we shall always discourage it as it surely gives you an experience but it can also be a regret for the rest of your lives.

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Posted by Ahmed Babar on Oct 29 2011. Filed under Pakistan, Society. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry