Selecting the right girl for marriage

Selecting the right girl for marriage

One of the most trivial questions that we, the men, have to face at some stage in life is the selection of a perfect life partner for us. Marriage is a reality of life and while it may be portrayed as a compromise between a man and a woman, it is undoubtedly
one of God’s greatest gifts to mankind. However, the aftermath of marriage depends significantly on the man’s judgment and selection criteria.

Many men choose to get married to women who are beautiful, have a smart physique and have an extremely trendy wardrobe, which includes skinny jeans, short shirts, frilly tops, etc. Tons of make-up on the face along with huge Paris Hilton-inspired shades
makes them look like someone straight out of ‘America’s Next Top Model’ show. However, these glamour beauties often turn out to be devil’s little helpers who seem to have made a pact with their mentor, Satan, to wreck havoc and make life miserable for their
husbands. Their proud nature, expensive taste and temptation to flaunt their beauty drives their husband mad and forces him to spend most of his time away from home and in the company of his friends for comfort and relaxation. The wife, who should be the primary
source of comfort, only proves to be driving force for anger, depression and at times even insanity.

In contrast to these beautiful yet deadly women, men give preference to the females who are rather simple, not waste a lot of cosmetic products on their face in an attempt to enhance their beauty and wear clothes that seem to have come straight out of a
Pakistani morning talk show instead of Versace or Gucci fashion show. These females are easy to please as they don’t go for the labels and shop at places that won’t make their husbands broke just a few days after the salary got transferred to their accounts.

The simple women are expected to be experienced when it comes to taking care of house-hold chores and minding the kitchen, which involves cooking as well as keeping it clean. The modesty in these sorts of girls is quite evident and they stay away from anything
that reeks of immorality. Not only is it safe to take our wife, clad in decent clothes, out with us without worrying about other men staring at her with seemingly x-ray visions.

A man loves his parents and is normally on a look-out for a partner who is able to love his parents equally. The hi-fi women over-flow with attitude and present a risk of answering back to the elders in the house.

One of the most important things that one has to take caution of while selecting a wife is to ensure that the potential wife was not involved with someone else prior to the wedding scene. If she was bad enough to denounce the teaching of her parents and
run off to her boyfriend, then there is no guarantee what she would do to someone else around her.

Choose an extremely loving girl, who is not afraid to embrace her reality and is not bothered with taking the responsibility of the house from the servant. Do not go for the face, but instead go for the inner-beauty which can be unearthed through a day’s
or week’s interaction.

There is still ample time to make the right decision and properly scrutinize the potential wife. Do not let the beauty or sweet nature blind you from looking at their inner-beauty and compatibility with you.

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Posted by Muhammad Qasim Hassan on Nov 15 2011. Filed under Opinion. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry