Tie the knot and hold it firm or do not marry

The nuptial day, finally end of wait to the love one, the dire aspire to be in the arms of someone who cares, loves, understand and share the warmth feelings comes to closing stages.  Take a step and jump into the never-ending,
everlasting life of heaven. Unfortunately, sometimes it is a harsh choice. Marriage is flower like relation, start from the single seed, with the passage of time it nurture a blossom with mind-blowing colors.

Human beings naturally are the greedy of love and care. The maniac of post- wedding-life is like a glass, ones broken ever broken. Love and ego is the rival. The ego virus breed and scatter produce hatred and take it to the extent,
the domino effect of which is a brake up. Have ego but only if you have the ability to re-assemble the things without cracks.

“Listen, I know, you are pretty fool!”

“Yeah, I know, accepting your proposal confirm me fool. I think fiber tape is made only to paste it on your mouth.”

If you do not want to drag your relationship in trouble then, choose the words carefully. A single word spoken in anger can account to break up. Understand and reflect positive loving thoughts.

If, for example, you have done a heart breaking deeds, accept your fault, apologize and try to tolerate the anger as you are on mistake. Successful wedding, survive unfortunately due to tolerance. Instead, these should be hold
firmly due to care and love. Tolerate and grow roots of hatred in heart is more fatal than express and forget. Judge your position and use the option. Make him/her feel protective and secure.

When we delineate a character without prior meeting, then the condition may be fatal. Never delineate just observe and adjust. If not possible than change your path or compromise. Compromise will let the partner to think and change
its stance. Draw a line between do and don’ts, like and dislikes and you will be in the strongest relation than ever before.

Be close, be friendly but do not be compromising in relationship instead try to produce love. Understanding the true needs of your partner without spoken words will never let you in a compromising relationship. Saying “I am digesting
all this just for the reason: our children” may burn the knots of your love rope.

Love, care and compromise make life full of bright days and nights too. Try to produce as much love as you can.

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Posted by Waqas Munir on Nov 15 2011. Filed under Opinion. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry