When love changes into hatred

When love changes into hatred

There was a time when you were head over heels for someone. The very sight of that person was enough to leave you breathless, while standing in close proximity to her left you shivering like a cell-phone on vibration. Utter a single word in her presence
felt like a mountain too high to climb, while every word that came out of her mouth sounded like sweet music that seemed to have a soothing effect on your very soul. Every time that person came near you, you used to find your heart and brain in a tussle as
one tried to refrain the other from making you succumb to your temptation of simply putting your arms around her and hugging her like there was going to be no tomorrow.

Such was the depth of your emotions for your beloved, the special someone who seemed to be the key to your happiness and felt like the only part of your puzzle that was missing. The long and weary journey of getting to this person seemed to be totally worth
the effort. It felt that nothing could ever drain you of the euphoria that circulated through your veins while your significant other was next to you.

However, the bitter reality makes it a point to slap you on your face every so often, ensuring that you do not end up living a blissful life in what is intended to be a miserable world full of despair and trails. The mere purpose of this world is to see
whether you manage to hold on to your faith and remain steadfast when calamity befalls you.

Just when you found yourself warming up to your abode in the recently found utopia, fate turns the tide and pulls you out of your Eden, only to throw you amid the fires of hell.

This sudden change of tide was triggered by an act of transgression by your loved one. You believed in her purity and unwavering adherence to the principles of decency and morality, which pretty much defined your love for her. Her beauty and the sweetness
of her voice held no significance when compared to her piety and virtuous nature. Her devotion to the preservation of a woman’s sanctity and your strong faith in her capacity to shun evil was what justified the strong feelings that you harbored for her inside
your heart.

You were naive, for she was nothing that you thought her to be. The sanctity of women was defiled and the culprit was none other than your beloved. She shed off all inhibitions to embark of a journey of what is referred to as liberalism in the dictionary
of feminists. Finding her stubbornly defend her disdainful action left no doubt that the boundaries of decency had become vague in her mind. The very backbone of love was shattered into tiny pieces after bearing witness to her obstinate refusal to admit her
mistake and feel regret.

Disappointment and disgust were the two emotions that filled up your heart after the truth got unraveled.  A feeling of betrayal begin to stir somewhere in your heart, getting fueled by the images of the heinous crime that your seemingly soul-mate had committed.
This betrayal grew with every passing minute and opened up the gate for one emotion that you least expected to associate with your beloved: hatred.

Today, the very sight of that person disgusts you, the very sound of that person fills you up with fury. Every time she is close by, you feel like standing up and screaming at her, demanding an explanation for the breach of trust and defilement of what is
supposed to be sacred to her gender. There were very few who received the love that you had to offer her and there were definitely going to be very few who would receive the hatred that was now going to be directed at her.

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Posted by Muhammad Qasim Hassan on Nov 28 2011. Filed under Society. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry