Truth about the man with a slippery heart

Truth about the man with a slippery heart

Many people fail to realise that things are not what they seem and everything is not black and white. While everyone makes fun of you for carrying your heart on your sleeves, nobody is able to grasp the actuality of everything and ends up making up judgement
based on misunderstood facts.

There are people who claim that they are deeply in love with one person and have decided to spend the rest of their life with that person. Everyone initially respects that and wishes them the best for the future. However, the next time they meet that person,
he is still in love but with a completely different person.

People fail to understand the reason for that person to move on to another person while discarding his previous beloved and start thinking that the previous claims were nothing more than lies. They start assuming that the person is simply interested in chasing
girls without any intention of getting committed to them, or if that is not the case, then he is simply desperate for any girl and basically falls for anyone talks to him nicely or does not look at him with disgust.

As a result of this judgement, this person becomes an object of mockery and people start harassing him for being such a flirt. Nobody is even willing to give this person a chance to justify himself and explain why he did what he did.

The truth about this person and the reason for his changing his beloved is merely because he is not able to endure the torment of holding on to something that is never meant to happen. He is tired of praying for miracles that are simply not part of his fate.
He loved his beloved very much, but she belonged to someone else and despite making numerous tries to win her heart, the efforts turned out to be futile and he was left with a broken-heart. Finding himself with no option but to move on, that is exactly what
the person did.

The person never stopped loving his previous beloved, but keeping himself immersed in her thoughts and memories offered nothing but pain to him, sending him into a severe depression as a result. Therefore, the person decided to distract himself from the
hurt and look for love elsewhere.

The person keeps looking for distractions and the numbers of crushes keep on increasing, but the real love always remains in his heart. The crushes, while special, are never able to take the beloved’s place, but serve to act as a buffer. The person is simply
running away from the pain and moves on from one crush to another because the previous crush loses her effect of cushioning the pain.

While many will still fail to understand the tribulation of this person and sympathise with him for living in so much pain, hopefully one day people would understand and start praying for him, wishing to see him happy and alive once again.

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Posted by Muhammad Qasim Hassan on Dec 15 2011. Filed under Opinion. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry