Less embarrassing ways to get your stuff back after a break up

Breakups are very common and there is no doubt about it but it is also true that breakups are never easy no matter if you are the one doing it or even it’s the other way round. The emotional and physical attachment makes it really hard to get someone off
your head immediately.

However, it differs from people to people, some recover in days or may be months while others take years and still could not get their heads straight. The different time duration required to overcome a lost relationship varies and depends how deep the relation
was. It is even harder to get over some one if there is a lot of history involved between the two.

The question under discussion absolutely not about how to get over your ex girlfriend / boyfriend, it’s about something even important. Today we will learn how to get your belongings back after the relation is over. Often there is expensive stuff bought
together when in a healthy relation and you do not want to walk out without your things.

It is certainly difficult to ask for your possessions after the breakup but there are some tested ways of getting your stuff back without any harm.

The best and the easiest way to do so is to find some of the common friends, tell them to be neutral and help you get your stuff back. Provide them with a detailed list of all the stuff you think belongs to you and make sure you do not miss out small things,
your movies collection, mobile phones etc.

Always remember to pay your friends back on successful completion of task, you can pay them back in any way, treat them with a burger, pizza etc.

You can also contact your ex over the internet and tell her to drop the stuff somewhere approachable by both of you. She can always drop it at one of your common friend’s place or elsewhere easily accessed by you.

If there is no common friend and you do not want to meet your ex one of the easiest ways is to have her send them by post. The mail approach however involves some serious risks as she will only send the stuff she wants and you can end up losing a lot of
precious items.

All the methods discussed above should only be applied if you are certain not to hook up with her again. The main reason behind getting your stuff back without seeing her is because an eye contact can blaze the extinguishing flames.

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Posted by Ahmed Babar on Dec 25 2011. Filed under Opinion. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0. You can leave a response or trackback to this entry